Palm Springs Elopement Packages

We do not do elopements here Jun – Sep for the health and safety of all involved due to the extreme heat.

Why? Because our heat waves — which sometimes hit up to 115°F/46°C through late September — are dangerous. Heat exhaustion and heat stroke can develop within minutes when temperatures are in the 100°F+/37°C+ in a desert with no shade.

In conclusion, October through May are the best times to come to Palm Springs because the weather is gorgeous then!

We’ve got options upon options in Palm Springs! So it really depends on the vibe you’re going for and they generally fall into two categories:

The City

The first option is to embrace that mid-century modern vibe of the queerest, most swingin’ desert resort town! That means we’re looking at boutique hotels, Airbnbs, and even just somewhere outside in Downtown Palm Springs near all the art.

The Desert

Please note that this is NOT Joshua Tree, which is an hour north of Palm Springs, which means no Joshua Trees for photos.

However, just outside of the city limits are some gorgeous plots of desert we can access. Sometimes it’s just open desert near windmills and sand dunes, and other times it’s a cool botanical garden (with a fee to take photos in) or even hiking areas!

First, most elopement permits typically allow a range from six people total (including you two, me, and the photographer) to roughly 15 people (including you, me, and the photographer). Having 10 guests puts us at around 14-15 people total to remain in compliance with the most common permit limits.

Secondly, remember when you said you wanted something simple? Well, an event with more than a dozen people is no longer simple. It’s like herding cats to get that many people to move even 50 yards. Plus, the more people you invite, the more expectations are heaped onto your elopement. Suddenly your Mom is asking why you don’t have seating for Grandma? Who is walking you down the aisle? What do you mean there’s no aisle and no music??

Every couple this has happened to thinks they’ll be the exception, but it happened to them too!

That’s why there is a hard limit of 10 guests, no exceptions to ensure I can provide you the amazing Palm Springs elopement experience I promised.

Special note specifically for the Epic Elopement Experience and Ultimate Adventure Elopement services:

Of the time we schedule together, your loved ones are going to only be with you for maybe 30 minutes of it. For the other 1.5 hours of the Epic Elopement Experience™ or 3-5 hours of the Ultimate Adventure Elopement, your guests will be braving the elements, standing around waiting for you as you have the time of your life without anything to entertain them. They won’t have food or drinks and no seating but the car. Because, honestly, elopements are designed for YOUR enjoyment, not that enjoyment of your guests. 

I’ve also noticed that the more guests a couple has at their elopement, the more stressed and less present. Instead of savoring their newlywed state and feeling like supermodels with our awesome photographer, they’re focused on the relative who got lost and freaking out, unable to get a hold of them. Or worried about the friend showing signs of heat exhaustion from standing in the sun instead of finding shade despite my multiple warnings. Or fielding the complaints that their loved ones are demanding to leave early because they are starving even though we still have 40 minutes of photos during golden hour left.

Yes, those are all real examples. 

In short, hell yeah!

I offer full service elopement options that include photographers because so many couples felt lost and wanted something all-inclusive. Plus I LOVE working with rad photographers, so when I find someone I adore, I want to keep working with them over and over.

But if you have found a photographer who rocks your world and you’re super excited about, then hire them! In fact, I demand an email introduction to the artist who won you over with their awesome work. 

No. After having performed over 700 elopements, I know every aspect of what you need to have an amazing, chill adventure elopement without stress. That’s why I’ve designed these packages intentionally and with great care and introducing variables with unknown vendors means I can’t promise easy or stress-free. I only include the most amazing photographers and florists with whom I have a solid working relationship in these packages so that I can ensure you have an easy and unforgettable time with us.

I’ll start by saying something we all know: Fridays and Saturdays are the busiest days everywhere, but most especially the busiest in a highly-trafficked resort town like Palm Springs. Traffic is horrible, parking is a nightmare from so many events going on, and it just becomes misery to navigate all that while trying to have a good time.

That’s why I don’t do elopements on Fridays and Saturdays, because they are so busy that it makes for a stressful experience for everyone involved. And that is the opposite of what an elopement is meant to be! That’s why I only do elopements midweek and Sundays, no exceptions. I want you to roll up relaxed, smiling ear to ear, and ready to say your vows in an awesome place with your favorite person, not stressed out and late because of traffic.

I mean that elopements with me do not have any of the following: an aisle, music or sound amplification, arch or arbor, strewn petals, candles, chairs (except for the elderly or disabled), etc.

There are two reasons I don’t allow any setup (no exceptions):

1. A set-up means you’re having a wedding, not an elopement. Most desert locations don’t even allow this kind of stuff anyway!
2. It’s stressful and unnecessary.

While I know that arch you saw on Instagram or Pinterest looked amazing, but I can guarantee it did not add to the experience even though it made a great photo. Why can I say that with such confidence? Well, someone had to haul that thing down to into the desert from the parking lot or from the side of an exposed desert road. And that’s either going to be you in your wedding gear (now setting up instead of enjoying the experience) or you’re going to be paying a vendor a good chunk of change to tie us to a specific spot we can’t leave until the set-up is broken down and removed, even if that spot proves problematic for photos. It’s just not worth it! 

The bottom line:

Ultimately, I’m a hiker and my elopements are designed with the “pack in, pack out” mentality, meaning we carry in and carry out whatever we bring, leaving nothing but footprints and taking nothing but photos. Because we literally go into places as beautifully dressed hikers. It is deeply important to me that we respect the land while making your elopement experience stress-free and awesome. That’s why I’ve designed my Palm Springs elopement oackages this way – so they are fun, joyful, and relaxed because you don’t have to worry about anything!

The short answer is you can’t.

The long answer is that I am often speaking with 6-30 prospective couples at any given time, so it’s simply impossible for me to save the date while you decide. I also require a consultation before I invite you to book with me, so keep an eye out for that email with the link to schedule that!

For the Short & Sweet:

• Payment is due in full at the time of booking, which may be done up to three months in advance.

For the Run Away with Me:

• I require 50% of the total price to reserve the day, which can be done up to 12 months in advance.
• The remaining balance is due 2 weeks before the elopement.

For the Epic Elopement Experience and Ultimate Adventure Elopement, I break it up into three payments.

• I require $999 USD to reserve the date, up to 18 months in advance.
• A midway payment of half the remaining balance is due at the halfway point between the date you book and your actual elopement date.
• The final balance is due 2 weeks before elopement day.

My system is fully online, so you can make your payments online anytime once you’ve booked with me.